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Giveaway: Someone’s getting a Mystic Wand for MY Birthday!

Hey folks!

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It’s my birthday this week and I have so much fun stuff going on (you may already notice the site looks a bit different- it’s a work in progress, I’ll tell you all about that later)! First things first: I wanted to continue a tradition that I started last year. A tradition that was inspired by my awesome former boss in Boston. Helena used to give gifts to her staff every year on her birthday and it was always something really cool because that woman has good taste! Well, I don’t have a staff but I do have awesome readers and so I want to give you (well one of you at least) something awesome in honor of my birthday. It’s giveaway time!!

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The wonderful folks at SheVibe (who also just included me on their March cover- check it out on the bottom of this page!) have been kind enough to furnish me with one of my favorite toys of 2013 to give away. The Mystic Wand is a toy I cannot say enough awesome stuff about. It surprised the heck out of me. I was Hitachi Magic Wand devotee, what need did I have for this little thing that runs on batteries* (batteries for goodness sake!!)? Well, the Mystic Wand shut me up right quick. It’s powerful (and we know I like power!) compact while still covering everything I need (I tend to use the phrase “large swathes”) and, unlike the Hitachi, it’s got a non-porous head. The Mystic Wand is my go-to. It’s my closer. I may have fancier, more exciting toys that I love but this is my constant. I’m so excited to introduce someone new to the Mystic Wand.

So, this is a quick one because I want to pick a winner before I leave for CatalystCon so I’ll be picking a winner after 9pm PST on March 11th. Follow the instructions below to enter.I’ve given you lots of options- some are quite fun- so let’s celebrate my birthday with a Mystic Wand for one of you!!

Thank you to SheVibe for providing the Mystic Wand, you guys rock!

The giveaway is over but you can still get a Mystic Wand from SheVibe.


*It should be noted that a rechargeable version exists but everyone I’ve talked to agrees that, inexplicably, the battery one is better. Apparently a re-design is coming, fingers crossed.


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23 Comments

  1. Camryn Jones Reply
    March 2, 2014 at 3:58 pm

    Happy birthday!
    I shall also use this space to say congrats on your appearance in SheVibe’s awesome convention comic. I recognized you right away; the super sex shop t-shirt & the hair helped *giggles*
    Oh, and your current avi on Twitter is adorable. Simple but very pretty 🙂

  2. Vonda Bryant Reply
    March 3, 2014 at 9:08 am

    Hi love and happy bday
    talk about giving back 🙂

  3. Nate Daniel Reply
    March 3, 2014 at 6:17 pm

    Happy Birthday to you
    And thank you and SheVibe for giving your fans a chance to win one of your favorite toys.

  4. Scarlet Reply
    March 3, 2014 at 9:03 pm

    Happy Birthday! <3

  5. thesindoll Reply
    March 3, 2014 at 9:11 pm

    Happy Birthday to ya! I usually always go rechargeable. But it’s interesting that you find this one better. Re-design should be interesting. And Fucking-A… the cover of SheVibe.. Whoo Hoo!

  6. Secretly Sensuous Reply
    March 3, 2014 at 11:11 pm

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY to you, happy birthday to you! Happy birthday, dear BedHead – Happy Birthday to you!! *claps*

    I’m really keen on trying stuff with user-replaceable batteries. I like being able to either put in my own rechargeables or grab some disposables if I run low on juice mid-session. Battery juice, of course.

    Thanks for hosting the giveaway!

  7. Larry Green Reply
    March 4, 2014 at 11:42 am

    Happy Birthday. Love the flame red locks.

  8. Zoe Reply
    March 4, 2014 at 5:48 pm

    Hard to believe another year has gone by!

  9. Beck Reply
    March 4, 2014 at 6:15 pm

    I hope you have a really awesome birthday with lots of sex toys! Thanks for the giveaway.

  10. Black Asphodel Reply
    March 4, 2014 at 8:08 pm

    Happy Birthday!

  11. Winston Wiley Reply
    March 4, 2014 at 8:14 pm

    Happy birthday!

  12. Heaven Reply
    March 5, 2014 at 1:03 pm

    Happy birthday I hope you have a wonderful one!

  13. nicholesmith Reply
    March 5, 2014 at 5:42 pm

    Happy birthday!

  14. Mya Murphy Reply
    March 6, 2014 at 7:53 pm

    Have a very happy Birthday!!!! myawinz@mail.com

  15. Lynn Van Hoose Reply
    March 8, 2014 at 11:27 am

    happy birthday!!!! have a great one!

  16. CinnamonNights Reply
    March 8, 2014 at 12:06 pm

    All of my closest friends know that I’m the best gift giver this side of the world. (not.)

    Happy birthdayyy, madam.

  17. Property Of Potter Reply
    March 9, 2014 at 8:52 am

    I hope you have a fantastic birthday! <3

  18. dizzygirl Reply
    March 9, 2014 at 2:44 pm

    Happy birthday!

  19. Kindred Reply
    March 9, 2014 at 2:52 pm

    Have a fabulous birthday!

  20. trix23 Reply
    March 9, 2014 at 3:06 pm

    I hope your birthday is wonderful (and that the following embed works)! Instead of a photo, I present a video I watch each year on *my* big day…this YouTube version clips a bit of the comedy-routine setup at the beginning (while leaving the part at the end), but Maz shakin’ his groove thang is always a treat:

  21. Kitty Reply
    March 9, 2014 at 4:23 pm

    Hope you have a wonderful birthday! Thanks for the chance to win something awesome. 😀

  22. dizzygirl Reply
    March 10, 2014 at 9:02 am

    This guy is ready to celebrate your birthday.

  23. trix23 Reply
    March 10, 2014 at 9:28 am

    I think my second comment got eaten…anyway, thanks so much for the giveaway! I’ve always shied away from wands, but the Mystic is the only one that’s ever appealed to me…

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JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

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