In just 3 days it will be the 3rd anniversary of this website. I can’t believe how quickly that time has gone by and how fortunate I have been
Live & Learn Archive
Everyone Makes This HUGE Mistake in BED!!!
You Know You’ve Done It!! I know I’ve done it and I’m pretty sure you have too. Ask your friends, I’m willing to bet they all have a story about the
Won’t Work For Free (Or Condoms)
This week I received an email (I’m sure many of my colleagues received it too) from a large, well-known condom company offering me the “opportunity” to “collaborate” with them
I Got to Talk to Sex Nerd Sandra About Sex & Depression!
Back in 2012, after my marriage split up when, I knew one of my goals was to have a happy, healthy, really hot sex live but I had not a
If Anal Sex Makes You Gay, Do Tacos Make You Mexican?
A while back I had the honor of being the first person someone spoke to about their recent first same-sex sexual encounter. I was humbled by this. I
Self Care For When You’re Feeling Not At All Sexy
We’ve all been there, maybe you’re sick, maybe it’s a super-stressful time at work, maybe you’re going through a break up- there are a million and one (and probably more)
Let’s Talk About Text, Baby – Don’t Text Your Way Out of A Love Life
On December 3 1992 a 22-year-old test engineer for Sema Group used a personal computer to send what is said to be the first text message -“Merry Christmas”- to a
Where Did I Go? Injury, Desexualization and Fear
So those of you who have been following along at home already know that this has been a trying time for me. The second half of last year was marked
This One Thing Will Make Your Valentine’s Day Extraordinary
Don’t worry, I’m not going to talk about that movie with the number and the color in the title… Last year I spent Valentine’s Day with a man who I was
Handling Hook Ups- Know These 5 Things For Drama-Free Flings
I know we’re coming up on Valentine’s day and that tends to make folks all couple-y but I’m going the other way. This week I’m doing a two part series
