• Sex & Depression
    • JoEllen’s Writing
    • Podcasts & Radio
    • Writing Tips
    • In The Media
    • Resources
  • Superhero Sex Shops
    • The Map – Find a Shop
    • The Write-Ups -What’s Up at the Shops
  • Blog
    • Best Of Bedhead
    • Being Cool With The Sex
    • Body Basics & Beyond
    • Geeking out
    • Gettin’ Riled Up
    • Live & Learn
    • Toys for Grown Ups
    • Reviews
  • Online Learning
    • The Business of Blogging About Sex
    • Will Work For Sponsorship Online Class, Tools, & Coaching
    • Conferences As An Introvert
    • Resources
  • Shopping
    • Recommended Reading
    • Get JoEllen’s Favorite Stuff!
  • Press | Media
    • In The Media
    • Video
    • Podcasts & Radio
    • Photos
  • Home
  • Events
  • Praise
  • Hire JoEllen
    • Adult Retail Advising
    • Bring Me To Your Campus!
    • Coaching with JoEllen
    • Want Me To Write For You?
  • Home
  • Events
  • Praise
  • Hire JoEllen
    • Adult Retail Advising
    • Bring Me To Your Campus!
    • Coaching with JoEllen
    • Want Me To Write For You?
The Redhead Bedhead: Sex Educator JoEllen Notte
  • Sex & Depression
    • JoEllen’s Writing
    • Podcasts & Radio
    • Writing Tips
    • In The Media
    • Resources
  • Superhero Sex Shops
    • The Map – Find a Shop
    • The Write-Ups -What’s Up at the Shops
  • Blog
    • Best Of Bedhead
    • Being Cool With The Sex
    • Body Basics & Beyond
    • Geeking out
    • Gettin’ Riled Up
    • Live & Learn
    • Toys for Grown Ups
    • Reviews
  • Online Learning
    • The Business of Blogging About Sex
    • Will Work For Sponsorship Online Class, Tools, & Coaching
    • Conferences As An Introvert
    • Resources
  • Shopping
    • Recommended Reading
    • Get JoEllen’s Favorite Stuff!
  • Press | Media
    • In The Media
    • Video
    • Podcasts & Radio
    • Photos

Live & Learn Archive

5 Tips For Writing When Your Brain Doesn’t Want To

I am a writer, a writer writes. In my case however, I am also someone with a history of depression, someone with a diagnosis of Hashimoto’s disease, and someone who

Read More

SHUT IT DOWN: Why I (Legit) HATE Valentine’s Day

A while back I shared a tweet about an idea that I still think is pretty good I once saw an article proposing the movement of Christmas to late February

Read More

Having Sex In Public, Comfort, and Letting Go of “Should”

I have a long distance partner who I see a couple of times a year and with whom I have a lovely ongoing email correspondence. One feature of this is, perhaps obviously,

Read More

2017 Best of Bedhead: Posts, Podcasts, Appearances & More!

Welcome to my fifth annual Best of Bedhead post! I cannot believe it’s my fifth time doing this! For 3 years this was pretty straightforward: I would set out to

Read More

Getting Really, Really Real About My Own Depression

For the last couple of years I’ve been doing a lot of writing about depression– how it can affect people, how to navigate it, ending the stigma around it… I

Read More

We Get to Be Where We Are: My Trip to the Guelph Sexuality Conference

So, as you may know, a couple of weeks back I attended the Guelph Sexuality Conference. I sat down today to write the traditional “I attended a wonderful conference, had

Read More

Dildos, Depression,Touring, and Teaching: 5 Years of The Redhead Bedhead

As impossible as it is for me to believe my baby, The Redhead Bedhead turned 5 on July 4, 2017. If we want to get technical, my first post didn’t

Read More

Thanks to SheVibe, I Grew Up To Be Wonder Woman!

JoEllen drawn as Wonder Woman, holding a sword, battling a monster with sharp teeth and glowing eyes that is rising up from under a bed text reads "JoEllen Notte Takes on The Monster Under The Bed" top of the images features the SheVibe logo

What do you want to be when you grow up? That age-old question that, frankly, took me until my mid-thirties to figure out for real, has always played a starring

Read More

All The Times I Should Have Left My Terrible Therapist

For four years, 2007-2011, I saw a therapist mostly weekly with some periods of monthly visits when she thought I was “doing better”. Something that became very clear to me

Read More

20 Things You Might Not Know About JoEllen

When the urge hit me to write a “I bet you don’t know this about JoEllen!” post, I’ll admit I figured it would just be fun, frothy, and easy. For

Read More
‹12345›»

JoEllen Featured In:

About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

JoEllen Featured In











Shop With My Affiliates!

SHEVIBE
Peep Show
Spectrum Boutique
early2bed
goodvibes

Betty's Toy Box
Tantus
Lovehoney.com

Lucky Bloke

My Sponsors


uberlube

Porno Pics

sex toy reviews

Elle Chase Coaching

© 2024 JoEllen Notte Want to use something? Please ask first because, consent. And legality.

  • Sex & Depression
    • JoEllen’s Writing
    • Podcasts & Radio
    • Writing Tips
    • In The Media
    • Resources
  • Superhero Sex Shops
    • The Map – Find a Shop
    • The Write-Ups -What’s Up at the Shops
  • Blog
    • Best Of Bedhead
    • Being Cool With The Sex
    • Body Basics & Beyond
    • Geeking out
    • Gettin’ Riled Up
    • Live & Learn
    • Toys for Grown Ups
    • Reviews
  • Online Learning
    • The Business of Blogging About Sex
    • Will Work For Sponsorship Online Class, Tools, & Coaching
    • Conferences As An Introvert
    • Resources
  • Shopping
    • Recommended Reading
    • Get JoEllen’s Favorite Stuff!
  • Press | Media
    • In The Media
    • Video
    • Podcasts & Radio
    • Photos

 

Loading Comments...