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Tantus Goddess – Sometimes Love Requires Compromise

We all know that I’m a big fan of high-quality body safe toys, right? Well you really can’t talk about high-quality, body safe sex toys without mentioning Tantus. The company that

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Condom & Lube Samplers from Lucky Bloke. Good idea or best idea ever?

I have spent much of the last year on a quest to find condoms I love. The testing process has been arduous. No, no it hasn’t, it’s been fun. In

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NS Novelties Decollér — The vibrator that taught me how to type an accent.

A while back I was out shopping (in a sex shop, because I’m me) and I spotted the cutest vibrator ever, the Muse, and went on a mission to figure

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Njoy Pure Wand – The Toy, The Myth, The Legend

So, as you may know, the Njoy Pure Wand is a thing of legend.  I had read about it, talked about it and gazed upon it longingly but had never used one

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iGino One – Resentful Orgasms & Dancing Vibrators

The first thought I had when I heard from the makers of the iGino One was “It’s called iGino? That sounds like a character on Jersey Shore. It’s like they

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Review: Fun Factory Stronic Eins Pulsator – A Bedtime Story (with orgasms)

Note: If you like the Eins be sure to check out the Drei as well!  So, my journey with the Fun Factory Stronic Eins started when I visited Babeland’s Lower

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Review: Topco Ultrazone U Touch Side – If only annoycance caused orgasm

Here’s the deal: sex toys should make you feel many things and the Topco Ultrazone U Touch Side definitely did that for me. A couple of the things it made me feel Confusion Frustration

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Review: Butterfly Bliss Silicone Waterproof Vibrator

Masturbation May seems like an awesome time to unleash my second-ever toy review.  Here goes! Once upon a time I walked into Good Vibrations with a limited budget and no

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We-Vibe Touch- My Road Buddy

I’m traveling pretty light these days (seriously, I right now have so little clothing with me that it’s slightly problematic) but I do, of course, still need to have toys

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The LELO Ella proves that I do, in fact, have a G-spot

LELO Ella

I told you all back in January that I had the LELO Ella in my sights, the sex geek in me was lured by tales of g-spot bliss and squirting craziness

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About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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