“I think they throw you out of the sex-blogger union for admitting that.” I was having a conversation with what may have been the most sex-positive human being I’ve ever
Live & Learn Archive
Dildos, We-Vibes and Canadian Airport Security
At the Feminist Porn Awards Wolf Hudson told us how he had been held at the airport for 2 hours on his way into the country because, as he said
Love in the Time of Facebook: Someone Didn’t Die & I Hesitated to “Like” It
Last week I had one of the most absurd moments of my dating life. Yes, it beat out the time I dated a guy for 3 weeks because I didn’t
Please Give Me an Apartment, I Really Miss Sex
Update: On April 22 I secured an apartment and stopped being such a freakin’ drama queen… about this particular topic. I don’t usually break from my schedule but I’m feeling
#sexgeek S.O.S
I’m sitting in the airport in Minneapolis getting ready to fly to my new home of Portland, Oregon. This marks the end of the Superhero Sex Shop Tour* This experience
Surfing, Sex and Being a Badass
I wrote this last summer as a writing sample and then put it aside and completely forgot about it. I just came across it and while everything that says “recently
Stop saying “Friend zone”. That’s not a thing.
Flipping through Jezebel last week I was greeted with the news that, in what can only be described as proof that humans are getting dumber, “Friend Zone” was recently
Cherry Picking: Let’s Rethink Virginity
When I lost my virginity it was an intellectual rather than a physical act. I’ll explain in a minute. The “losing the virginity” narrative is one that I think we
What Do We Want?: Why is asking for what you need so ridiculously hard?
After much deliberation I made the decision to much across the country. Along with this comes the decision to change what I do for a living. It just took me
I Have First Date Sex and No, I’m Not Killing Courtship by Doing So
I could easily have tweeted the jist of this piece: I have first date sex because I like sex. I didn’t tweet it because I’ve been getting increasingly up-in-arms about
