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JoEllen’s 2018 Favorite Things

It’s that time of year again, time for my Favorite Things! I always think of my favorite things list as something that was, for a long time, a list of products until I (in my

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Busting Sexual Health Stigma with STDCheck.com!

STD testing. We all know it’s important and that we should do it regularly but it’s a hard thing to get super-excited about. However, last month I had an experience

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Killing The Mood: My Favorite Not-At-All-Sexy Uses For Sex Products

In my years writing about sex I have dealt with so many products and my relationship with those products has grown and evolved. From the very beginning when I was

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Aphrodite and my hunt for a wand that does other cool stuff

Today I’m talking about the Aphrodite Infrared Rechargeable Massager but as has become my habit of late, I’m going to tell you a bit about my relationship to products of

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So, Where’s This Book? Process, Progress, & a Preview of The Monster Under The Bed

“You must be done with your book by now!” “When is the book coming out?” “So, where is this book?” Now that I am YEARS into the process of writing

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O-Wand: Because I MUST Try ALL the Wands

As I prepared to write about the O-Wand, I remembered that a couple of years ago  I, driven by the realization that none of the MANY sex toys sent my

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The Evolution of Online Sex Shopping

Recently I had to update/delete a ton of links on my site because I’ve now been at this long enough for a bunch of stuff I love to have been

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Guest Post: I Am Not the Sex Writer You Think I Am by Steph Auteri

Hey folks!   This week I have something very special for you. Last month I had the pleasure of meeting Steph Auteri on my trip back East and, frankly, she’s

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8 Things I’m Loving (Or Just Crushing On) Right Now

When you write about sex, new products come into your life all the time! Some make an impression and some… don’t. This summer I’ve come across some very cool stuff,

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Virtual Reality (VR) Porn: Because we live in the future!

I don’t know about you guys but I sometimes blurt out “It’s 2018! How do we not have teleportation/jet packs/time travel etc yet?!” Basically I feel like movies and books

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About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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