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The Redhead Bedhead: Sex Educator JoEllen Notte
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05 February 2020

Win A Copy of The Monster Under the Bed!

As you may already know (because I’ve been talking about it INCESSANTLY) my book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression, and the Conversations We Aren’t Having is coming out

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05 January 2020

4 Tips for Making Sexual New Year’s Resolutions

2020 upon us and over the course of the first week of the year, I’ve seen a lot of folks making new years resolutions that are decidedly sexual. Whether declaring

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16 December 2019

2019 Best of Bedhead: Posts, Podcasts, Projects and More!

Well, here we are, it’s time once again for my annual “Best of” list and, as has become the tradition with said list, my annual look at what I did

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12 December 2019

JoEllen’s 2019 Favorite Things

It’s that time of year again, time for my Favorite Things! I always think of my favorite things list as something that was, for a long time, just a list of products until

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09 December 2019

Thank You for Supporting my Indiegogo! (Also, here’s where you can get my book now!)

So, if you have been following me on social media, you probably already know that I have spent the last month frantically promoting an Indiegogo campaign/pre-sale event to help fund

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22 November 2019

To Get The Sex You Want Online, Read The Damn Room

Whether you are looking for love or just sex, the internet can be a confusing place with ads telling you to have an affair or to sign up and exclusively

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17 November 2019

There is No “Best” Sex Toy

It’s November right now but December is fast approaching. In the world of “people who talk about sex” December is when you start to see a bunch of lists featuring

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05 November 2019

Get My Book Early (plus cool perks!) AND Support My Tour on Indiegogo!

Big news, folks! The LONG wait is FINALLY over (almost)! I’ve launched an Indiegogo campaign to fund next year’s book tour and supporters will get their copies of The Monster

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01 November 2019

When a Sex Writer Doesn’t Want to Have Sex or Write

CW: depression, anxiety, discussion of body image/weight I am a sex writer. That’s my profession. Sure, I tend to present it as part of a list: “Sex Writer, Educator, Mental

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21 October 2019

Relieve Sinus Pain & Pressure with a Bullet Vibe!

As we come up on another cold and flu season I find myself sharing a piece of advice that I have shared just about yearly for probably the last 5

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About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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