When you write about sex, people send you sex toys. Seriously. Even if you don’t ask for them (YMMV on that). I know I started receiving them before I knew
When Crisis Brings Clarity: The Unexpected Way 2020 Changed My Life
I recently had a conversation with a reader in which he stated “crisis can bring clarity” and that hit me hard. I think a lot of us have been living
Don’t Panic! Keeping It Casual Can Be Healthy
Remember when (seemingly not too long ago) the idea of casual sex was kind of taboo? For a while it seemed like everything from adult dating sites to friends with
You’re Still You: Remembering sexuality is not dictated by how much sex you are having
So, here we are in month 5 (FIVE!) of quarantine and I want to talk to you about something I’ve seen a bunch of folks struggling with online: the feeling
Make Your Home A Sexy Haven (without buying stuff)
Over the years I’ve talked a lot about the proliferation of toys and other sex paraphernalia that fill my home but what I’ve never discussed is how, in spite of
Welcome to my Lube Buffet- The (many) Lubricants on my Nightstand
A couple of months ago, in the midst of an interview about sex and depression, I referenced the “buffet of lubes” on my nightstand. I wasn’t exaggerating. At any given
Virtual Events with JoEllen Notte
I may not be coming to your town any time soon but that doesn’t mean you can’t see me! I’m doing virtual events and I couldn’t be more excited about
Comfort Media: 12 Series & 1 Podcast to Soothe Your Socially Isolated Mind
Hey folks! So I know a lot of us are isolating at home right now and it’s a scary time so a lot of us are probably anxious and scared
The Monster Under the Bed Tour is POSTPONED
MY BOOK TOUR HAS BEEN POSTPONED So, it seems I jumped the gun a bit in announcing my tour yesterday. In the last 24 hours several venues have cancelled and
