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Don’t Panic! Keeping It Casual Can Be Healthy

Remember when (seemingly not too long ago) the idea of casual sex was kind of taboo? For a while it seemed like everything from adult dating sites to friends with

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You’re Still You: Remembering sexuality is not dictated by how much sex you are having

So, here we are in month 5 (FIVE!) of quarantine and I want to talk to you about something I’ve seen a bunch of folks struggling with online: the feeling

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Make Your Home A Sexy Haven (without buying stuff)

Over the years I’ve talked a lot about the proliferation of toys and other sex paraphernalia that fill my home but what I’ve never discussed is how, in spite of

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Welcome to my Lube Buffet- The (many) Lubricants on my Nightstand

A couple of months ago, in the midst of an interview about sex and depression, I referenced the “buffet of lubes” on my nightstand. I wasn’t exaggerating. At any given

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Virtual Events with JoEllen Notte

I may not be coming to your town any time soon but that doesn’t mean you can’t see me! I’m doing virtual events and I couldn’t be more excited about

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Comfort Media: 12 Series & 1 Podcast to Soothe Your Socially Isolated Mind

Hey folks! So I know a lot of us are isolating at home right now and it’s a scary time so a lot of us are probably anxious and scared

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The Monster Under the Bed Tour is POSTPONED

MY BOOK TOUR HAS BEEN POSTPONED So, it seems I jumped the gun a bit in announcing my tour yesterday. In the last 24 hours several venues have cancelled and

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Win A Copy of The Monster Under the Bed!

As you may already know (because I’ve been talking about it INCESSANTLY) my book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression, and the Conversations We Aren’t Having is coming out

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4 Tips for Making Sexual New Year’s Resolutions

2020 upon us and over the course of the first week of the year, I’ve seen a lot of folks making new years resolutions that are decidedly sexual. Whether declaring

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2019 Best of Bedhead: Posts, Podcasts, Projects and More!

Well, here we are, it’s time once again for my annual “Best of” list and, as has become the tradition with said list, my annual look at what I did

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About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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