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Superhero Sex Shops, CatalystCon, Gloryhole & Hugh Hefner Jammies – a Roadtrip

Hey all! So if you follow my adventures you know that I’ve been a busy little bee. Last week I took the Superhero Sex Shop Tour through California hitting San

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Fun ways to put your mouth on other people- 6 hot oral sex positions with Kinkly!

Do you like oral sex? If you said “yes” then I have a treat for you! My new piece for Kinkly.com features some awesome ways to rock it – Check

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Hitting the Road Again!

Hey all! I just got back from teaching in Chicago and Milwaukee (which was awesome!) and come Monday I’m hitting the road again! My brain is a bit fried so

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Celebrating Global Female Condom Day!

JoEllen holding a box of FC2 condoms

Today is Global Female Condom Day, a day that exist to raise awareness about “the only method available today designed to offer woman-initiated, dual protection from pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections”.

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Lovehoney Happy Rabbit Natural- 1 Speed away from bliss

Like most women of my generation I’ve been told for years that rabbit vibrators are awesome. While I’ve dipped my toes into the stream of dual-stimulation vibrators I was holding out

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Erotica, Sex Toys & Me. I take Cleis Press on the road!

  I’ve got a bunch of travel coming up and, frankly, not a moment too soon because I also have a small stack of books to work my way through

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Come See Me – Upcoming Events with The Redhead Bedhead!

Hey all, I’m heading back to the Midwest on Friday- I’m so excited! You should come out and see me. We can learn stuff or knit stuff or both! Check

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The VMAs: Where Bodily Autonomy Goes To Die or Fine, I’ll talk about Miley

Look, everyone’s been talking about it all week so you don’t really need a long diatribe from me about the Miley Cyrus VMA performance but I did want to talk

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The Next 9 (and probably more) Sex Shops

So last week we looked back at the shops I’ve already seen, now let’s take a look at the awesome sex shops still to come! So far the list is

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34 Cool Things About 17 Sex Shops

Getting ready for the next round of sex shop visits I was reminiscing about the last round- remembering my favorite things about each shop. I decided it would be fun

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About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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