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Review: OhiMiBod Lovelife Adventure Triple Stimulation Vibrator

Way back in July the night before the ANME convention started I was wandering through the hotel where the exhibitors were already set up for the convention the next day

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Congratulations to the XBIZ Award nominated Superhero Sex Shops!

Poster reading "Superhero sex shop tour" and "with great power comes great..." In the center there is a vibrator with a cape.

Have you checked out the list of nominees for the 2014 XBIZ Awards? I was so excited to see that it contained several Superhero Sex Shops (as well it should-

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Reviewing My Online Dating Past to Help Your Online Dating Future!

  I’m getting ready to head back into the online dating world  (or at least I’m getting ready to start thinking about it). In honor of that, today we’re talking a

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HUMP! with the Redhead Bedhead (not what it sounds like)

Over the weekend I went to HUMP!– I’m struggling with punctuating this entry as the exclamation point seems to be an actual part of the event name… HUMP! is billed

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Self Serve Toys Albuquerque, NM – Superhero Sex Shop

Hey folks!   So, as I was planning the different legs of the Superhero Sex Shop Tour I carefully mapped the trips so I could visit multiple shops in a

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Talking About Sex & Depression with Kinkly.com

This week over on Kinkly.com I’m talking about a subject very near to my heart- depression. It is a condition that, according to the CDC affects 1 in 10 adults

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Review: Slender G Waterproof Vibrator G-spots, Giraffes & Good Vibrations

I have made no secret of the fact that my g-spot and I are not quite besties. So when I was sent not only a g-spot specific vibrator but a g-spot

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5 Reasons Why Online Dating is Awesome! Yes, Seriously.

  For the last year or so there have been a slew of articles debating whether online dating is killing monogamy, traditional dating, marriage prospects, sanity etc for reasons ranging

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The Rubber Rose San Diego, CA – Superhero Sex Shop

Update: Rubber Rose closed its doors in 2014. I am glad that I got to visit as it was truly a special place. I’ll be opening today’s shop profile with

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The Red Sox Win The World Series & I, Once Again, Remember I Come From Hardy Stock

JoEllen taking a selfie in bed, wearing a t-shirt that reads "tough, proud, brave, free, Boston"

This is way off-topic for me but I figure as I am both my own editor and web master, who is going to stop me? That’s right, I’m drunk with

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About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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