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Thanks For Making Me A Kinkly Sex Blogging Superhero!

    In what has become one of my favorite fall traditions, the superstars over at Kinkly.com have released their Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes list and I am, once again a grateful

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I’m Talking About Sex and Depression for Bitch!

Imagine for a moment that I took away your ability to enjoy sex. It’s just gone. Now in order to get it back, you would have to declare that you

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Doxy DON (formerly Skittle) Video Review

The good folks at Doxy sent me their newest creation, the Skittle DON, it’s called DON now, and I’ve made another video review for you (I think I’m liking the video

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I’m Heading to Playground 2015!

In about a month I’ll be packing my bags and heading to Toronto for Playground 2015 .  Along with Stephen Biggs, I’ll be presenting The Monster Under The Bed: Starting the Conversation About Sex

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An Ode to Sliquid

Okay, that made it sound like I was going to write a poem and I’m definitely not but, seriously folks, Sliquid. I’m pretty sure a lot of us love them

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What Mentally Ill Looks Like

I had planned on writing about sex this week (you know, like a sex writer) but then my state was hit with a tragedy yesterday. Another shooter, another school, another round

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Calling People “Crazy” is Lazy, Do This Instead!

Recently I’ve been involved in several conversations about people who were, well, treating other people terribly. In all cases the subjects of the conversations had long track records of this behavior and

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Starting the Conversation – #SFSMonster at Woodhull

Want to hear about my general experience at Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit? Check out Raising My Voice as Quietly as Possible- Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit It’s been almost a month since

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Fun Factory Miss Bi Video Review & Giveaway

I got to try out Fun Factory’s newest toy the Miss Bi and here’s my review in the form of a video (I’m so modern!). I apologize for the hugeness,

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Keep Lady Cheeky’s Body-Positive Feminist Porn Alive #SaveLadyCheeky

LadyCheeky.com is in danger of being erased permanently from Tumblr. Lady Cheeky needs $1000 for a legal retainer in order to start the process of communicating and solving the issue

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About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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