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The Redhead Bedhead: Sex Educator JoEllen Notte
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10 September 2015

Starting the Conversation – #SFSMonster at Woodhull

Want to hear about my general experience at Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit? Check out Raising My Voice as Quietly as Possible- Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit It’s been almost a month since

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08 September 2015

Fun Factory Miss Bi Video Review & Giveaway

I got to try out Fun Factory’s newest toy the Miss Bi and here’s my review in the form of a video (I’m so modern!). I apologize for the hugeness,

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06 September 2015

Keep Lady Cheeky’s Body-Positive Feminist Porn Alive #SaveLadyCheeky

LadyCheeky.com is in danger of being erased permanently from Tumblr. Lady Cheeky needs $1000 for a legal retainer in order to start the process of communicating and solving the issue

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01 September 2015

Raising My Voice As Quietly As Possible – Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit

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It’s taken me some time to sit down and write this and when considering why I realized that Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit hit me like a ton of bricks… in

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05 August 2015

Fun Factory Bouncer Review

Lots of companies like to toss around the word “innovative” like confetti and act like they are bringing out new and different stuff when they are often just rehashing the

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30 July 2015

Mini Review Sampler featuring Jimmyjane, Tantus, Kinklab & More!

It’s happened again, I’ve fallen way behind on reviewing. I think it’s the result of me recovering from surgery, devoting a bunch of time to preparing for upcoming classes and appearances

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22 July 2015

Upcoming Teaching and Speaking Dates

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Okay folks, I’ve got a whole lot of fun stuff planned for this summer and I’d love to see you for some of it. I’ll be teaching, speaking and doing

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21 July 2015

I’m Heading To Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit!

In less than a month I’ll be packing my bags and heading clear across the country to Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit. If you don’t know what that is, go check it

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10 July 2015

I Tried Cloth Menstrual Pads Again – Now I’m Obsessed

So, lately I’ve been getting the feeling that more and more people who get periods are starting to agree that disposable products kind of suck. They create a ton of

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03 July 2015

5 Questions With OhMiBod’s Suki Dunham

Next week I’m heading off to ANME. This convention is one of my favorite events of the year partially because I get to see all the cool new products but

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About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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