Heads up: because I’m taking on an inherently gendered phrase (porn for women), today’s post is a smorgasbord of gendered language and references assumptions that are frequently made along the
Thanks to SheVibe, I Grew Up To Be Wonder Woman!
What do you want to be when you grow up? That age-old question that, frankly, took me until my mid-thirties to figure out for real, has always played a starring
To Get The Sex You Want Online, Read The Damn Room
Back in the day the internet was a lawless land full of random message boards and chat rooms where people wandered around in the hopes of finding people who shared
Get Great Deals On My Faves During Wand Week at Peepshow Toys!
So, if you’ve been paying attention, you may have noticed that I love wands. Let me say that again: I LOVE wands. A big hunk of my favorite toys list
3 Ways To Use The Internet As Your Sexual Communication Wingman
I recently talked to my partner about how, once you’ve lived in sex positive world for a while, you start to forget that not everyone is comfortable talking openly about
Review: Screaming O Charged Positive Vibe
So, it’s no secret that small vibrators are not my jam. Large swathes are my thing, small doesn’t get me there. But I agreed to give the Screaming O Charged
6 Ways To Make Your World More Mental Illness Friendly
Life with a mental illness is frequently challenging. This can be exacerbated by the words, actions, and attitudes of the world around us. Simply put, the world is not a mental
5 Tips For Being A (Kind & Classy) Casual Sex Rock Star
Casual sex seems to be more prevalent than ever. Now, I have good news and bad news about that. The good news is, it’s gotten way easier to find no strings attached
A Slightly Cynical Sex Writer Does Valentine’s Day
I’m not going to lie to you folks, Valentine’s Day has never been my favorite and now that I’ve been in the sex writing game for longer than I was
All The Times I Should Have Left My Terrible Therapist
For four years, 2007-2011, I saw a therapist mostly weekly with some periods of monthly visits when she thought I was “doing better”. Something that became very clear to me
