After five years as a sex writer, even though I don’t focus on toy reviewing, I’ve amassed quite a collection of sex toys. This often leads folks to make comments
Getting Really, Really Real About My Own Depression
For the last couple of years I’ve been doing a lot of writing about depression– how it can affect people, how to navigate it, ending the stigma around it… I
Seriously, Don’t Yuck Each Other’s Yums
Don’t yuck my yum. If you have spent any time in the sex positive world, odds are you have heard some variation of this phrase. The exact wording may vary
Here’s The Thing About “Porn Sex” vs “Real Sex”
There are some headlines that come up over and over again in sex world and one that makes my skin crawl is “The Difference Between Porn Sex and Real Sex”
Getting Ready For Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit!
In less than 3 weeks I’ll be packing my bags and heading clear across the country to Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit. I love this event so much (seriously, it was on my
We Get to Be Where We Are: My Trip to the Guelph Sexuality Conference
So, as you may know, a couple of weeks back I attended the Guelph Sexuality Conference. I sat down today to write the traditional “I attended a wonderful conference, had
Announcing the Amplified Voices Sex Blogger Scholarship
Hey folks, did you know that I, along with Epiphora, teach a class called The Business of Blogging About Sex that teaches aspiring bloggers the skills they need to succeed online? And
Dildos, Depression,Touring, and Teaching: 5 Years of The Redhead Bedhead
As impossible as it is for me to believe my baby, The Redhead Bedhead turned 5 on July 4, 2017. If we want to get technical, my first post didn’t
3 Things Too Many People STILL Don’t Know About Lube
Sex educators LOVE lube! Seriously, my people tend to talk about it a lot. After 5 years in this industry, there are still a couple of things I’m surprised to
When It Comes To Sex, You’re Doing Great!
When I started writing about sex one of my big motivations was my lifelong belief that I was doing it wrong. After a coupe of months of writing I realized
