The burden of carrying trauma chips away at us and the practice of shushing people who try to speak up makes the existing pain bigger, badder, and uglier. Let’s talk about talking about trauma!
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Did Watching Jason Mantzoukas on Taskmaster Change Which Men I Want to Date? Maybe.
I’ve always found the concept of developing crushes on random famous people to be one of the funniest and yet vaguely mortifying things we as human beings do. According to
Seriously, Don’t Yuck Each Other’s Yums
Don’t yuck my yum. If you have spent any time in the sex positive world, odds are you have heard some variation of this phrase. The exact wording may vary
When Crisis Brings Clarity: The Unexpected Way 2020 Changed My Life
I recently had a conversation with a reader in which he stated “crisis can bring clarity” and that hit me hard. I think a lot of us have been living
2018 Best of Bedhead: Posts, Podcasts, Appearances & More!
Well, here we are, it’s time once again for my annual “Best of” list and, as has become the tradition with said list, my annual look at what I did
There is No Reason to Gender Sex Toys Part 2: No, It won’t sound “weird”, “awkward”, or “confusing
Welcome to part 2 of my series “There is No Reason to Gender Sex Toys”. Last week we talked a bit about some of the reasons people apply gendered language
There is No Reason to Gender Sex Toys Part 1: Seriously, It’s completely unnecessary
One of my favorite pieces of feedback I have ever gotten after teaching came from a student in a class I taught during the University of Tennessee’s Sex Week in
Review: Sola Sync- Vibrators, Accessibility, and What Makes a “Wand”
Buckle up folks because while this is kind of a review, it’s also a lot of me having FEELINGS about vibrator terminology. Namely what makes a “wand”. Anyway, today we
Social Media: Cant Buy The Love
In addition to writing and teaching about sex, one of the things I enjoy doing professionally is helping other develop their careers writing and teaching about sex. To this end
Good Sex Shops: The “How” Is As Important As The “What”
It’s been just over 5 years since I first declared that good sex shops matter and hit the road to tour North America’s best adult retail establishments. Over the years I
