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The Bedhead’s Birthday Top 10 Sexy Finds List

HEADS UP: As this post is over a decade old, almost all of the products mentioned in it have gone on to the big bedside drawer in the sky. It is still a fun walk down memory lane, though.

Yes, I know, I’ve been celebrating the Bedhead’s first birthday for almost a solid month now but bear with me for one more post. I want to share with you some of my favorite product discoveries from the last year. As some of you know, when I started this project I was pretty much clueless. I’ve spent the last year learning about (and amassing quite the collection of) high quality sex products. These are my 10 favorite sexy finds from the last year. Most of these have appeared on other lists throughout the year, pardon the repetition. Also there are several awesome high-quality companies I love who don’t appear on this list, I’ll do a post soon devoted exclusively to the celebrating all the great, body-safe companies out there.

Okay, in  no particular order, here goes…

favoriteroundVibratex Mystic Wand-DISCONTINUED

My love for the Hitachi Original Magic Wand is well-documented but lately this little battery powered wonder has been impressing me by giving the Cadillac of vibrators a run for its money.

favoriteroundCrystal Minx Tail Plug by Crystal Delights- DISCONTINUED

JoEllen in a purple shirt, with purple nails, holding a glass butt plug with a purple tailHandcrafted, high-quality, environmentally conscious, body-safe, beautiful glass toys by awesome people- that’s Crystal Delights! Everybody seems to love their Minx tails I’m partial to the “Frosted Eggplant” color. It doesn’t look like an animal but rather a favorite, copyright-protected entity of mine that rhymes with “fuppet” 😉

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I already reviewed this one so I’m not going to say a whole lot here but this was one of my favorite discoveries of the year. Three cheers for lazy masturbation!

 

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More beautiful handmade glass toys. I’m just really down with this company. They are cool as hell. The toy I’m holding there is the “Pussywillow” in “Medium” Yeah. That’s the “medium”

 Addendum: That is NOT a medium. I found this out when I visited a shop, saw a Pussywillow labeled medium and noticed it was significantly smaller. I tweeted at Fucking Sculptures and they said something like “Oh yeah, yours is a ‘large’, if memory serves it’s a large ‘large’ at that. ” I’d like to get my hands on a medium… The large is awesome but really, really big. 

favoriteroundSwoonKink Cashmere/Leather Flogger

I know you guys are probably so over hearing me talk about this flogger but man oh man do I love this thing! Made from leather and up-cycled cashmere, it’s beautiful and actually does deliver a pleasing little bite.

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I know, I don’t even have a penis but I love these things. I went through a period where all of the men in my life received Tenga Eggs and small bottles of lube- I was very popular. Also, they are very versatile. Put one over a vibrator- fun! Put one over your hand- yummy! There’s a lot you can do with these little wonders. Also, the new Keith Haring ones are adorable.

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Noemie Ceramic Dildo by Lovemoiselle -DISCONTINUED

I picked this piece up on my tour and I absolutely love it! Beautiful and fabulous for temperature play- fill it with warm water (it retains heat for ages!) or put it in ice water. Awesome. Lovemoiselle has a couple of really cool ceramic toys. (Well, they used to. These seem to have been discontinued)

 

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So I literally, just now, found out that that is the name of this product. I always call it my “sparkly pirate vibe” I stand by my belief that everyone needs a basic, simple vibe that works for them on hand – a lot of folks talk about keeping a Pocket Rocket around- this is a way prettier version of the first vibe that ever worked for me and, say what you will, I love it.

 

favoriteroundPlease Cream Lubricant

Please Cream Lube

If you’ve read any amount of this site odds are you’ve seen me mention this stuff- I’m slightly obsessed with it. It’s the first decent lube I ever used and although I’ve found others I like (For example I love Sliquid as a brand!) but this has remained the champ in my house.  It’s a fabulous hybrid lube- go read the thing I wrote about it!

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Lelo Luna Beads

favoriteroundI had a couple of missteps in my search for kegel weights but when I finally listened to Epiphora and got the Luna Beads my search was over. They’re pretty much perfect.

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About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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