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Ergonomic Vibrators: What They Are and Why It Matters

Quick! Picture a vibrator! Now describe it. I’ll bet you thought of words like sleek, sexy, curved, or maybe even modern but how about ergonomic? Ergonomic might not be the

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JoEllen’s 2019 Favorite Things

It’s that time of year again, time for my Favorite Things! I always think of my favorite things list as something that was, for a long time, just a list of products until

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Touch Lubricant Warming System & The Long Evolution of My Relationship With Lube

I’ve been aware of the Touch Lubricant Warming System for quite some time and I’ll admit, I was skeptical (you’ll find out why in a minute) but then, on my

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Review: The Electro-Whip Neon Wand Attachment

Did you all know that I have a bit of a thing for e-stim? Yeah, I do. I think I might have eventually fallen for e-stim and fire play anyway

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JoEllen’s 2016 Favorite Things!

In the past my annual favorite things list was always a list of products, frequently featuring links to my reviews of said products. This year I tested and reviewed significantly

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Mini Review Sampler Featuring As You Like It, Clone-A-Willy, Fun Factory, L’Amourose & Tantus!

It’s happened once again– I’m way behind on toy reviewing. Partially because I’ve been traveling every 2 weeks since December, partially because I didn’t have a ton to say about several

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The Best of Bedhead 2015 – My Favorite Posts

Hey folks! I’ve spent this week in Boston completing Planned Parenthood’s Sexuality Education Certification Series – it was a tremendous experience and I highly recommend it to any of you

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Doxy DON (formerly Skittle) Video Review

The good folks at Doxy sent me their newest creation, the Skittle DON, it’s called DON now, and I’ve made another video review for you (I think I’m liking the video

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Fun Factory Bouncer Review

Lots of companies like to toss around the word “innovative” like confetti and act like they are bringing out new and different stuff when they are often just rehashing the

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Review: The Fun Factory Stronic Drei- A Reason Not to Get Out of Bed in The Morning

As you may remember, a little while back I acquired a Fun Factory Stronic Eins and became unhealthily obsessed with it  thought it was a very good sex toy that I

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About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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