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Reading is Sexy! The books on my nightstand


Approximately how many books I find it necessary to take on a trip

 

I love reading, I love books. I have resisted the e-reader for a long time because I couldn’t get my head around the idea of not having physical books. However, I went on a trip a few weeks ago and ended up bringing 8 books with me! (I made it through 6.5 while I was away) Add to that the occasional sidelong glances I get when publicly reading books on the subject matter I have been studying of late (more than one man has acted like a reading a book pertaining to sex was tantamount to wearing a “horny and not selective” sandwich board) and, well, I finally saw the appeal of something that could hold a bunch of books and not let anyone else see what I was reading. So I finally pulled the trigger and ordered my Kindle. There is still a stack of books on my nightstand though, my to-be-read pile, that I want to get through before I start Kindle-ing as it were. Since I love sharing my finds with you, here they are:


What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl’s Shame-Free Guide to Sex and Safety

I’m mid-way through this one by the always-awesome Jaclyn Friedman. It encourages journaling and has been immensely helpful in identifying the sources of the hang-ups that have prevented me from enjoying my sex life in the past. At the halfway point, I recommend it.

 

The Supergirls: Fashion, Feminism, Fantasy, and the History of Comic Book Heroines

When a 3 year-old Bedhead was asked “What do you want to be when you grow up?” she replied “Womba Woman” My fascination hasn’t waned- strong women are sexy!

I Love Orgasms

Because, who doesn’t?

Here Lies My Heart: Essays on Why We Marry, Why We Don’t, and What We Find There

Looking at my attitudes toward sexuality has me doing the same with relationships and monogamy.

Talk About Sex: The Battles over Sex Education in the United States

I’ve been spending a lot of time thinking about how we teach children about sex, I’m particularly excited for this one!

 

Moregasm: Babeland’s Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex

Okay, so this one is kind of a cheat as A. I’ve owned it for a while but my old copy got lost in my last move so this came in my last Amazon order and B. this is more of a “live in the nightstand for reference all the time” kind of gem. But C. Whatever, LOVE this book.

This one is out of print but you can get it from ThriftBooks!

 


 


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JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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