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Pure Pleasure Santa Cruz, CA – Superhero Sex Shop

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NOTE: Pure Pleasure is, sadly, no longer with us (as a brick and mortar, they are still kicking ass online though!) but its storefront was taken over by Good Vibrations so sex positive retail still exists in Santa Cruz.

Some of the shops on the tour have been places I’ve known of for years and visiting them felt like finally meeting a long-time penpal- that strange feeling of finally getting to see someone who I already felt I knew so well. Other shops have been knew to me, found by word-of-mouth recommendations and internet research but still mysterious to me – kind of like a blind date who you google beforehand (never happened!). This is what Pure Pleasure was like for me and let me tell you- this shop makes an awesome date!

Pure Pleasure was opened in 2008 by the mother/daughter team of Janis and Amy Baldwin aiming to fill the (in their own words) “need for a more inviting sex shop within the Santa Cruz community”. I always think that one of the things that really makes a shop great is its ability to serve its particular community and Pure Pleasure seems to be doing this wonderfully. This shop complements the neighborhood it lives in. It seems to have created a safe, comfortable space for people to come learn and shop that fits seamlessly with all that is around it. Rather than being a destination shop, Pure Pleasure seriously feels like a place you might just regularly plan to stop in when you hit the farmers’ market down the street.

Also, I feel like Pure Pleasure is a small shop that packs a big punch. They offer a huge array of toys, lubes, books and apparel (though I know they were cutting back on apparel- I so regret not buying a corset!) and services- classes are varied and frequent and the website features a Q & A and streaming sex ed videos. There’s a ton to learn and do at this awesome gem of a shop!

Amy, one of Pure Pleasure’s owners, was kind enough to answer the Seven Superhero Sex Shop Questions for us! Check it out:

What makes Pure Pleasure unique?

Amy and Janis Baldwin, founder and owners of Pure Pleasure

We area mother-daughter pleasure boutique specializing in high-quality toys and sex-ed classes. We do not carry anything toxic, and are also a certified Green Business!

 Any advice to first time shoppers?

Well when it comes to first time vibrators, we always say start with something with multiple speeds, inexpensive but sturdy, and can be used internally and externally so you can figure out exactly what you like. And don’t be afraid to ask the sales people. That’s what we are here for!

 Any favorite moments/great stories?

My most memorable moment on the sales floor here was when an 80+ woman came in to buy her first vibrator after her husband had passed. And she had NEVER had an orgasm (or at least the conventional idea of what an orgasm is)! I felt so honored to help her in along this journey, and so proud of her for taking her sexual pleasure into her own hands (literally and figuratively ;)).

You’re trapped on a desert island (that contains a magical tree which grows batteries and has an electrical outlet in the trunk). What 5 sex toys/products available from your shop do you want with you?

(Follow the links to check out the products at one of my affiliate shops.)

Sensuous Beauty Love Balm (coconut oil-based lube/massage oil)
Mystic Wand (by Vibratex)
Njoy Stainless steel plug (size medium)
Go-Girl pee-while-you-stand-funnel (we are on a island, right?)
Bondage Tape (so many uses)

What is your favorite toy material? Why

Depends on what I am doing. I love stainless steel for anything anal or g-spot. It is heavy/weighted, warms up and cools down + retains body heat well, works with any lube, looks beautiful, and will NEVER break!

What is the most popular item in your shop?

Hmmmm…well vibrators sell the best, and then lube. I would say the Mystic Wand and Liquid Silk lubricant.

Any cool upcoming projects?

Plenty of fun and informative sex-ed classes! I just taught “Oral Sex 101: Giving Him Mind-Blowing Pleasure” to a great group (sold out, in fact!). Next up is “Kink 101” for the newbies, and “Anal 101” for Anal August 😉

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What’s on your shop soundtrack?

3-11 Porter, Thievery Corporation, Zero 7

Find them online at www.purepleasureshop.com
Twitter: @purepleasure
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JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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