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The One Where I Get A Publisher

So, with the hubbub of the holidays and with my traditional post-holiday illness striking (this year I was impressive, I got sick TWICE in two weeks!) I have neglected to properly make a very important and exciting announcement: After four years of working on my book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression, and the Conversations We Aren’t Having, I have a publisher!

Guess who just signed a contract to publish her book! THIS GIRL!

— JoEllen Notte (@JoEllenNotte) December 18, 2018

And it’s not just any publisher, it’s a very, very cool publisher. After listening to a football team worth of literary agents and editors dismiss a book that looks at sex and mental health as “too niche” and “not something we think there’s consumer interest in” and (my personal favorite) “Brave and important but not right for me at this time”, my book will be published by Thorntree Press.

Thorntree Press is a Pacific Northwest-based company that is known for awesome books like More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory, Ask Me About Polyamory: The Best of Kimchi Cuddles, Love’s Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities, and Ask: Building Consent Culture and a whole bunch more! Sex positive and not afraid to take on daunting topics, I couldn’t imagine a better home for this book. I am honored that they have chosen to publish The Monster Under the Bed.

Thank you all for all of your encouragement and support over the last four years. This book has represented a long journey for me. One that I’ve made while also navigating health issues and one that, without a publisher, often felt like it was happening in a vacuum. I can’t even express how grateful I am to be at this place where I can see the book actually coming to life. Thank you all for helping me get here. 

So, when will the book be available? Well, that’s still a little while off. I’m wrapping up the first complete draft over the next two months and all I know for sure is that we are expecting the book sometime in 2020.

In the meantime, if you want to help support me as I finish the book and get it ready to face the world, my Patreon is still active. Every Monday morning I publish previews, allowing my patrons to check out the book on its path to completion. I’d love to have you join us at patreon.com/JoEllenNotte! Want to offer support but find financial support is not feasible for you? I 100% get that! In that case, spreading the word and sharing my Patreon is an awesome way to help me bring this book to life. Either way, I appreciate each of you and recognize your vital role in getting me to this place. Thank you!


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About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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