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Facing the Monster Under The Bed: Navigating Sex and Depression

Last weekend I, once again, had the pleasure of publicly talking about sex and depression!  “Facing The Monster Under The Bed: Navigating Sex and Relationships While Coping With Depression” (more on that soon!) was part of my ongoing project exploring the impact of depression and its treatment on sexual function and relationships. At 1 hour and 10 minutes, the session was one of the shortest I’ve ever given on the topic and, as such, we only got to take one question from our audience. That question? (pardon my paraphrasing) “You mentioned something about strategies for dealing with the sexual side effects, can you say more about that?”

That question was particularly relevant as I was in the midst of creating my newest sex & depression resource with the help of my friends at SheVibe!

Sex and depression: Products for coping with sexual side effects

 

So often we end up feeling like the options for coping with sexual side effects are “change/stop taking meds” or “wait until the depression is gone” but for a lot of folks these aren’t options and it would be great to have ways to cope with the sexual impact of depression and its treatment that they can use right now. With that in mind I have created a list of my favorite products for taking on issues like anorgasmia, erectile dysfunction, genital numbness, and more. This list is always growing- especially right now as I’m preparing the resource list for my upcoming book The Monster Under The Bed: Sex, Depression, and the Conversations We Aren’t Having so check back often.

 

Products For Coping With Sexual Side Effects has been made possible by the wonderful folks at SheVibe. SheVibe has been incredibly supportive of my work on sex and depression, even making it the focus of last May’s cover and I’m thrilled to have them on board for this project.

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About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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