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Get Great Deals On My Faves During Wand Week at Peepshow Toys!

So, if you’ve been paying attention, you may have noticed that I love wands. Let me say that again: I LOVE wands. A big hunk of my favorite toys list

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A Slightly Cynical Sex Writer Does Valentine’s Day

I’m not going to lie to you folks, Valentine’s Day has never been my favorite and now that I’ve been in the sex writing game for longer than I was

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JoEllen’s 2016 Favorite Things!

In the past my annual favorite things list was always a list of products, frequently featuring links to my reviews of said products. This year I tested and reviewed significantly

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All The Things To Love About DOXY: A Vibrating Retrospective

Stepping onto an elevator at Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit I was met by the smiling face of one of my all-time favorite sex educators who, after greeting me, reached out to touch

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The Bedhead’s 2015 Favorite Things!

2015 has been quite a year. I started it off too injured to do much and by the end I had traveled to two conferences to talk about sex and depression,

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5 Questions With OhMiBod’s Suki Dunham

Next week I’m heading off to ANME. This convention is one of my favorite events of the year partially because I get to see all the cool new products but

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5 Reasons I Love The Original Magic Wand

I realized that I have been remiss in sharing a piece of news with you folks. At the end of 2014 I came to a conclusion: I love big wand-style

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Review: Tenga Flip Black – Hole in One

So, I don’t have a penis which makes it odd that I’m reviewing the TENGA Black Flip Hole Masturbator, a toy made specifically for use on penises but the cute

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The Redhead Bedhead’s 2015 Sex Toy To-Do List

 It’s that time of year again, the time when I look at the year ahead and wonder “what inanimate objects would I like to orgasm with this year?”. The sex

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The Bedhead’s 2014 Favorite Things List & Giveaway!

Another year down and it has been a big one! I talked about toys all over the place, started a school and embarked on my biggest project to date! Somewhere

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About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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