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Celebrate 25 Years of Fun Factory With 1996 Prices!

Let’s Celebrate Fun Factory! Who is ready to celebrate? What are we celebrating? It’s Fun Factory’s 25th birthday! That’s right, they’ve been around since 1996 and have just kept getting

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Ergonomic Vibrators: What They Are and Why It Matters

Quick! Picture a vibrator! Now describe it. I’ll bet you thought of words like sleek, sexy, curved, or maybe even modern but how about ergonomic? Ergonomic might not be the

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Valentines Day in the Time of Covid-19

Even though it feels like we have been living through this pandemic for roughly 23 years, this time last year most of us in the U.S. were still going about

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JoEllen’s Big Sexy Yard Sale

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JoEllen’s 2019 Favorite Things

It’s that time of year again, time for my Favorite Things! I always think of my favorite things list as something that was, for a long time, just a list of products until

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There is No “Best” Sex Toy

It’s November right now but December is fast approaching. In the world of “people who talk about sex” December is when you start to see a bunch of lists featuring

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Relieve Sinus Pain & Pressure with a Bullet Vibe!

As we come up on another cold and flu season I find myself sharing a piece of advice that I have shared just about yearly for probably the last 5

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JoEllen’s 2018 Favorite Things

It’s that time of year again, time for my Favorite Things! I always think of my favorite things list as something that was, for a long time, a list of products until I (in my

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Killing The Mood: My Favorite Not-At-All-Sexy Uses For Sex Products

In my years writing about sex I have dealt with so many products and my relationship with those products has grown and evolved. From the very beginning when I was

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Aphrodite and my hunt for a wand that does other cool stuff

Today I’m talking about the Aphrodite Infrared Rechargeable Massager but as has become my habit of late, I’m going to tell you a bit about my relationship to products of

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About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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