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The Womanizer Doesn’t Work For Me (And It’s Important To Talk About That)

I resisted testing one of recent history’s most popular toys – The Womanizer– for a while. See, I’m a broad stimulation chick; when folks say things like “pinpoint” in relation

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Review: Doxy Die Cast- Like A Vibrator Superhero

Hey folks, heading into this review be forewarned that I talk a lot about the original Doxy Wand. If you are unfamiliar with that product, you can check out my

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Motorhead Overkill 7 Function Power Classic Vibrator

Edit: The Motörhead line has gone on to the great nightstand in the sky. If you are looking for a fun take on a basic vibe, I suggest something like

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A Box Full of Wonders From Tantus

With almost uncanny precision the wonderful folks at Tantus manage to send me packages so they arrive just in time to brighten bad days, as was the case with their

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Doxy DON (formerly Skittle) Video Review

The good folks at Doxy sent me their newest creation, the Skittle DON, it’s called DON now, and I’ve made another video review for you (I think I’m liking the video

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An Ode to Sliquid

Okay, that made it sound like I was going to write a poem and I’m definitely not but, seriously folks, Sliquid. I’m pretty sure a lot of us love them

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Fun Factory Miss Bi Video Review & Giveaway

I got to try out Fun Factory’s newest toy the Miss Bi and here’s my review in the form of a video (I’m so modern!). I apologize for the hugeness,

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Fun Factory Bouncer Review

Lots of companies like to toss around the word “innovative” like confetti and act like they are bringing out new and different stuff when they are often just rehashing the

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Mini Review Sampler featuring Jimmyjane, Tantus, Kinklab & More!

It’s happened again, I’ve fallen way behind on reviewing. I think it’s the result of me recovering from surgery, devoting a bunch of time to preparing for upcoming classes and appearances

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Review: Magic Wand Rechargeable – Cut the Cord

So, last year I came to the conclusion that I am, without a doubt, a wand girl. Big, honking, strong wands are my thing and that started on September 7th

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About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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