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GAME OF THRONES! Now that I have your attention, dildo!

I have to come clean about a couple of things as we head into discussing the Realm Drago Lock on Dragon Sword Dildo Handle and Draken Lock On Fantasy Dragon Dildo. I

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FemmeFunn Diamond Wand: Sometimes Paying No Attention Works Out

Well, it looks like a pattern is forming and no one is more surprised than me! For the second time in two months I received a product for review, looked

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Mimic Plus Vibrator: The First Toy to Pleasantly Surprise me in YEARS

I’m going to be 100% honest with you: I had no interest in reviewing the Mimic Plus. I have kept an eye on Clandestine Devices for the last couple of

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PalmPower Plug & Play Corded Rechargeable Wand

Today’s review is going to be a bit strange (okay, I’m aware that my “reviews” veered away from standard review fare years ago but this one is a bit extra-special).

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Busting Sexual Health Stigma with STDCheck.com!

STD testing. We all know it’s important and that we should do it regularly but it’s a hard thing to get super-excited about. However, last month I had an experience

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Aphrodite and my hunt for a wand that does other cool stuff

Today I’m talking about the Aphrodite Infrared Rechargeable Massager but as has become my habit of late, I’m going to tell you a bit about my relationship to products of

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O-Wand: Because I MUST Try ALL the Wands

As I prepared to write about the O-Wand, I remembered that a couple of years ago  I, driven by the realization that none of the MANY sex toys sent my

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Touch Lubricant Warming System & The Long Evolution of My Relationship With Lube

I’ve been aware of the Touch Lubricant Warming System for quite some time and I’ll admit, I was skeptical (you’ll find out why in a minute) but then, on my

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Cute Brand Alert: Überrime Handmade Silicone

I have to be honest, I’m something of a dildo materialist. I don’t use dildos much at all but when I see pretty/ interesting ones, I want them. Seriously, I

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Le Wand Petite: Itsy Bitsy Teenie Weenie High-Powered Wand Machinie

First off, apologies for the title. I just couldn’t resist.  Now on to the Le Wand Petite. I’ve had quite the journey with Le Wand. We met and I seriously

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About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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