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Getting Ready For Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit!

In less than 3 weeks I’ll be packing my bags and heading clear across the country to Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit. I love this event so much (seriously, it was on my

Hey folks, did you know that I, along with Epiphora, teach a class called The Business of Blogging About Sex that teaches aspiring bloggers the skills they need to succeed online? And

Sex educators LOVE lube! Seriously, my people tend to talk about it a lot. After 5 years in this industry, there are still a couple of things I’m surprised to

In less than a month I’ll be packing my bags and heading to Canada for the Guelph Sexuality Conference. If you don’t know what that is, go check it out. The

Do you want to be a sex blogger? Are you already actively blogging and ready to step up your game? Could you use something to help you set up your site,

This might get long. Here’s the tl;dr: I’ve launched a Patreon where you can support my work on sex and depression and help me bring my book, The Monster Under

Silver Doxy Die Cast wand, JoEllen's name badge, and a bag from Woodhull's Sexual Freedom Summit

It’s been a month since I left for Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit and I still miss being there! I sat down to write this thinking I would give you the

This week I’m heading to Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit (#SFS16). I’ve got a pretty busy schedule and I’m pretty psyched for it! Last year at Woodhull I skipped all things social

Top reads "Woodhull's Sexual Freedom Summit" Bottom features photo of JoEllen

In less than a month I’ll be packing my bags and heading clear across the country to Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit. As you may recall, last year’s Summit left quite an impression

I was cleaning my house over the weekend and I got to my condom stash. This isn’t a rarity, I don’t keep it tucked away somewhere out of sight but

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JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

Geeking out Archive

Getting Ready For Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit!

Announcing the Amplified Voices Sex Blogger Scholarship

3 Things Too Many People STILL Don’t Know About Lube

I’m Heading to the Guelph Sexuality Conference

Want to be a Sex Blogger? DO IT! My Online Class is Back!

Funding The Monster Under The Bed: Support Me On Patreon

I Want To Hang Out With You at #SFS16!

Gearing Up For Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit!

Safety First: My Favorite Condoms