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Here you’ll find JoEllen’s interviews on a range of topics including sex and depression, sex positivity, sex toys, adult retail and more.


The Dildorks | Mental Help
March 14, 2023

Depression can put a strain on relationships, but it doesn’t have to! This week we’re talking to our friend JoEllen Notte, an author and mental health advocate, about her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends & Family.


Speaking of Sex | Navigating Depression In Intimate Relationships
March 10, 2023

JoEllen Notte, author of In It Together : Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family joins us to discuss how we can all show up more fully for the people in our lives who are living with depression. We ALL know someone who struggles with depression, and in this podcast episode we explore how we can love one another more fully while steering clear of the resentment, guilt and shame that can damage our most intimate relationships.


CS Radio – The Official Podcast of University of Pennsylvania Career Services | 177: Writer JoEllen Notte on Becoming a Published Author
February 27, 2023

Author JoEllen Notte talks about her journey from blogging and social media to becoming a fully published author. She discusses her first book, her battle with depression, and her latest work!


Sex and Psychology Podcast | Dating with Depression – Relationships and Mental Health
January 10, 2023

Relationships are hard. But they can be especially hard when you or a partner are dealing with depression. In this episode, we’re going to explore how mental health issues like depression can pose unique relationship challenges, but also consider practical tips and tools for overcoming them, including how to be a supportive partner when you’re with someone who is depressed.


The Bed Post Podcast | JoEllen Notte
December 4, 2022

This episode, Erin chats with writer JoEllen Notte about sex and depression.

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Sex and Psychology Podcast | The Complicated Link Between Depression and Sex
December 2, 2022

It is well known that depression (and certain drug treatments for depression, notably SSRIs) can lower sexual interest, desire, and activity levels. However, it turns out that the story of how depression and sex are connected is more complicated than this. Depression is one of those things that can affect different people in very different ways. In fact, research actually finds that depression has the potential to both increase and decrease sexual desire and behavior. So how do we explain this pattern of results? Let’s talk about it.


The Peer Project Episode 1 | Sex & Depression with JoEllen Notte
April 5, 2022

Host Chris Duke talks with Sex Writer and author of the amazing Monster Under the Bed Book JoEllen Notte about her mental health journey and how she discovered a link between depression and sex.


Wild & Sublime #S2E40 | Sex And Depression With Author JoEllen Notte
September 16, 2021

Karen interviews sex writer JoEllen Notte on sex and depression: how to talk to your doc about sexual side effects of antidepressants, ways to approach a partner experiencing depression, and new approaches to sexuality.


Dear Sex — Depression and Sex with JoEllen Notte
August 5, 2021

JoEllen Notte joins Wendy to talk about the intricacies of being in a relationship and having depression as well as how to show up for a partner with depression. JoEllen Notte is a writer and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Notte recently released The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression, and the Conversations We Aren’t Having.


The Axial Spondyloarthritis Podcast– Monster Under The Bed – Depression and Sex: An Interview With Author JoEllen Notte
February 21, 2021

In this episode Jayson talks with JoEllen Notte, author of The Monster Under The Bed, Sex Depression, and the Conversations We Aren’t Having.


Guys We F****d — How Can You Best Navigate Relationships With Depressed People?
February 5, 2021

Corinne Fisher and Krystyna Hutchinson chat with sex educator, author, & mental health advocate, JoEllen Notte! dives into the best ways to communicate and experiment with a sexual partner who is depressed, how to coax back sexual pleasure when experiencing the side effects of anti-depressants, the ingenuity of the Hitachi magic wand, and so much more! Use this link to hear this episode on Luminary with a FREE 30 day trial!


The Erotic Philosopher — Sex, Depression & The Conversations We Aren’t Having with JoEllen Notte
February 2, 2021

Cyndi Darnell speaks with JoEllen about the intersection of sex, relationships and depression, JoEllen’s book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression, and the Conversations We Aren’t Having, and more!


Echoes From The Void – 139: In Conversation with JoEllen Notte
January 28, 2021

Host Kevin Scott speaks with JoEllen Notte about her new book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression, and the Conversations We Aren’t Having, as well as why she wrote it and the void it fills.


Savage Lovecast – Episode 741: Insta-Apocalypse with JoEllen Notte
January 5, 2021

Dan and JoEllen talk about Instagram’s new TOS and what they mean for folks who talk about sex.

 


Savage Lovecast- Episode 706: Depressed AND horny???
May 05, 2020

Dan chats with JoEllen Notte, author of The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression, and the Conversations We Aren’t Having about being an introvert during the pandemic, and how it IS possible to be both horny and depressed.


Unscrewed: Under Pressure
April 28, 2020

Depressed lately? Anxiety spiking? Is your mental health (or your partner’s) fucking with your sex life? JoEllen Notte wrote a book for you, and she’s here with Jaclyn to help.


Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra 301: Sex and Depression with JoEllen Notte
April 19, 2020

JoEllen Notte is here to help us explore depression, relationships, and how depression and mental health can impact sex and desire, plus connecting during a pandemic.


Girl Boner Radio- Sex, Depression and Relationships
April 01, 2020

JoEllen Notte, author of The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having, joins August to explore her personal journey and research regarding sex and depression, related myths and more.


Sex Out Loud with Tristan Taormino | JoEllen Notte on Sex, Depression, and the Conversations Were Not Having
March 20, 2020

Author and researcher JoEllen Notte joins us today to talk about her new book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression, and the Conversations We Aren’t Having.


The Dildorks | Depression Transgression
March 03, 2020

Kate and Bex chat with writer and mental health advocate JoEllen Notte about her incredibly helpful soon-to-launch book on sex and depression, The Monster Under the Bed!


Running Wild with Christine | Episode 40: On Depression and Sex, with JoEllen Notte
January 11, 2019

Christine and JoEllen cover moving across the country to soothe a broken heart, resentment as relationship cancer, “empathy, strategy or distraction”, trends in the sex-positive movement, non-monogamy and lastly tools for how to deal with depression


Unscrewed | A Really Small Awkward Surprise Party
May 29, 2018

What’s the relationship between depression and sexuality? It’s more complicated (and hopeful! and fun!) than you might think, as sexual and mental health advocate JoEllen Notte explains.


Loving Without Boundaries Episodes 73 & 74 | JoEllen Notte, Educator and Mental Health Advocate Specializing in Sex and Depression
February 23, 2018

JoEllen and Kitty talk about mental health, nonmonogamy and a whole lot more in this TWO PART interview!


The Pageist Episode 076: JoEllen Notte
February 12, 2018

The Pageist talks with writer and mental health advocate, JoEllen Notte about depression and relationships.

 


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Sex Gets Real with Dawn Serra 193: JoEllen Notte on the best of 2017
December 24, 2017

JoEllen and Dawn talk about how JoEllen decides what makes her annual Favorite Things list, why they both hate the phrase “porn for women”, and why depression isn’t really the relationship killer that so many people think that it is.

Also: is it weird to hate touching your genitals? Is there a wrong way to use a bullet vibe?


Disability After Dark – My Depression is Separate From Me: An Interview with JoEllen Notte
November 5, 2017

In this episode, Andrew talks with JoEllen Notte; well known researcher, mental health advocate and writer about the linkages between sex, depression and disability. They talk about how she manages her depression, whether or not she believes depression is a disability, and so much more.


Brown Chicken Brown Cow- Sex and Depression with JoEllen Notte
August 28, 2017

In this episode, Monkey and HethreBeth interview JoEllen Notte. JoEllen is a noted writer, speaker, researcher, and mental health advocate. We talk about the intersection of mental health and sexuality. It is a good conversation about a serious subject but if you or someone you know and love manages their mental health this episode and can give you and them tools to think about mental health and sexuality in a new way.


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February 22, 2017

JoEllen Notte joins Camille to discuss her research into the intersection of these two stigmatised topics. Discussion includes:

  • What effects can depression have on someone’s sex life?
  • What the hell are “sexual side effects” when it comes to antidepressants?
  • Why doesn’t the medical and pharmaceutical community see this as a “quality of life issue”?

tristanSex Out Loud with Tristan Taormino: Sex, Depression, and the Conversations We Aren’t Having feat. JoEllen Notte
January 13, 2017

JoEllen discusses the impact of depression and its treatments on sexual function and relationships. She also discusses her original research and offers tips and strategies for navigating relationships when depression is part of the equation.


C2AaTmWVEAAjNETSex on the Brain Episode 7: Sex & Depression
January 12, 2017

JoEllen Notte dives into her research on depression and how mental illness and medication can impact our sex lives and our relationships. She also debunks depression myths, offers important advice for partners of people living with depression, and emphasizes how none of us are broken.


sex_cityThis week on Sex City
August 9, 2016

“Cordelia has the pleasure of interviewing JoEllen Notte. Since 2014 JoEllen’s been doing extensive research on sex and depression. She’s just finished presenting at the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit, and I’m looking forward to chatting with her.”


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June 19, 2016

Dawn Serra and JoEllen Notte roll around in sex positivity versus sex performativity and the ways sex positive folks often don’t walk the walk after talking the talk.

Plus, consent, not being a creep in a sex shop, and more.


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March 22, 2016

This week on Between the Sheets with Lora Somoza: We’re having a frank discussion about Sex and Depression. What are the signs? How can you help yourself or your partner? What are the common pitfalls and misconceptions? Tune in for the answers. You never know when you or a loved one may need them. Sex educator JoEllen Notte and comedian Adam Carl join Lora for a very informative conversation.


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January 29, 2016

Millions of people struggle with chronic depression – and all of them have a sexuality. Yet the relationship between sex and depression is rarely discussed. On this podcast episode, JoEllen Notte shares her wisdom about sex and depression.


Sex-Nerd-Sandra-NerdMelt-ShowroomSex Nerd Sandra #186: SEX & DEPRESSION WITH THE REDHEAD BEDHEAD!
March 29, 2015

CONFESSIONS, LIBIDO & GENITALS! Sandra comes clean with pal Rachael for support. Then, JoEllen Notte, a.k.a. The Redhead Bedhead, shares her findings on this invisible illness and how it intersects with sex as she prepares to write her upcoming book “Monster Under the Bed.”


sex_cityThis week on Sex City
December 16, 2014

Dorianne talks with Kelly Guillory the artist behind Transhuman Resources, Emily Nagoski, the author of the Good in Bed books, and JoEllen Notte, founder of the Portland Academy of Sex Education.


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November 12, 2014

We’ve talked and talked about awesome sex toys are, the tremendous advancements in the field, the glory of stainless steel and silicone, body safe and body conscious products. You know all of that. So, today we’re gonna talk about the flip side. The worst sex toys in the woooooorld!


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August 29, 2014

JoEllen talks about the impact depression can have on one’s sex life (and some fun toys stuff too!) with the Raw Sex crew.


cover170x170The Queerie Bradshaw Podcast-  Superhero Sex Shops and Great Sex Toys with JoEllen Notte (The Redhead Bedhead)
May 8, 2014

How do you tell a good toy from a great one? How do you spot a superhero sex shop? JoEllen Notte (the Redhead Bedhead) joins Queerie Bradshaw to answer these questions and more.


tristanSex Out Lous: Sex Toy Extravaganza with Emily Morse of Sex with Emily plus CalExotics, Fun Factory, Sportsheets & Redhead Bedhead
February 7, 2014

The Redhead Bedhead weighs in on toy company/consumer synergy. This is the final part of a series of interviews recorded at the PleasureWorks booth at the 2014 Adult Novelty Manufacturers Expo in Burbank, CA.

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About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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