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Review: Wildfire All Over Pleasure Oils

To be honest, I don’t really believe in aphrodisiacs. I think the idea that a substance would get you all ready for sex to be, at best, problematic. That said,

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Avant Pride: Let’s Talk About Gorgeous AFFORDABLE Silicone

I first got a look at Blush Novelties’ Avant line of silicone dildos last January at ANME and I’ll admit, I was smitten. I restrained myself though as I tend

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Waking The Monster: The Monster Under The Bed Hits Vancouver

On Saturday April 7th, I had the pleasure of once again presenting on sex and depression. This time I teamed up with the truly wonderful Shadeen Francis, MFT to present

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Check Out My Newest Sex and Depression Resource!

Last weekend I, once again, had the pleasure of publicly talking about sex and depression!  “Facing The Monster Under The Bed: Navigating Sex and Relationships While Coping With Depression” (more on

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The NEW Will Work For Sponsorship Online Class is HERE!

Folks, I’m so excited about today’s news! The new Will Work For Sponsorship is now available on Vimeo! As you may know, I am a huge fan of sponsorship. As far as I’m

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I’m Bringing The Monster Under The Bed To Vancouver, BC!

In less than two weeks I’m heading up to Vancouver, BC for the first time. I’m extremely excited about that for multiple reasons (there’s a Superhero Sex Shop up there!)

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Review: Sola Sync- Vibrators, Accessibility, and What Makes a “Wand”

Buckle up folks because while this is kind of a review, it’s also a lot of me having FEELINGS about vibrator terminology. Namely what makes a “wand”. Anyway, today we

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What Do You Want To Know About Sponsorship?

The time has come! I’m bringing back my class Will Work For Sponsorship! It’s been three years since I recorded the original class and a LOT has happened: I know

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And We’re Back! The Playground Conference Returns (and So Do I!)

I spent the last weekend of February in Toronto for the Playground Conference and, frankly, it was pretty rad. I attended Playground in 2015 and then the conference took a bit of a hiatus

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Win A Le Wand Prize Pack at Playground!

In less than 48 hours I’ll be heading to Toronto for the exciting return of the Playground Conference! This trip wouldn’t be possible for me without the support of the good folks at Le Wand. Do

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About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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