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Doin’ it to the Beat 3: One Hit Wonders Edition

We got a bit heavy last week so I think some levity is in order- time for another installment of Doin’ it to the Beat! Today we’re looking at five

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Come No Closer: Sex is how I keep people away from me

When I started this thing I said that I was on a mission to learn and grow and I wanted to take all of you along with me. Well, I’ve

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Reading is Sexy! The books on my nightstand

  I love reading, I love books. I have resisted the e-reader for a long time because I couldn’t get my head around the idea of not having physical books.

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Teach Your Children Well: Sex Positive Parenting

Last week I was sailing along having a good time talking music and sex (like I do…check it out) when suddenly I stumbled upon a completely unexpected lesson. Here’s the

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Doin’ It to the Beat 2: Wait, what? edition

I think we can all agree we had a great time a few weeks back talking about sexy R&B so I’ve decided to make “Doin’ It to the Beat” a

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A Slippery Slope: The one where I buy lube and tell you about it

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I am a creature of habit and a big fan of internet shopping, this frequently results in unintentional brand loyalty. This was the case with my lubricant shopping. I have

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Burning Bush: Does Pubic Hair Have to be a Hot Button Issue?

The first time I ever even heard of extreme below the belt hair removal was in a magazine article in 1997 (I tried to find it for you but, you

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Doin’ it to the Beat: Sexy 90s R&B Edition

One of my favorite blogs is The Mamasutra on The Buzz (Good Vibrations’ Online Magazine). Recently she did this great post about Tennessee’s “Gateway Sexual Activities” law which restricts teachers, when

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Ms. T – I pity the fool who messes with my IUD

  On July 1st 2011 after years of changing prescriptions, screwed up refills and weird emotional side-effects I bid the world of hormonal birth control adieu and rolled out my

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Dr. Foreskin or: How You Can Learn To Stop Worrying and Love the Hood

Several of my friends have never seen one, a few live in fear of encountering one and one refuses to have any interactions with them at all. I am referring

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About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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