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Tantus Echo Handle- I want to use this toy. Often.

  A while back I had just left for a trip when a package arrived at my house. Learning that said package was from Sparks, NV – home of Tantus –

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Calling Myself Out – I Haven’t Written in Months

Last week I sat down to craft a post showcasing my enormous ego favorite posts of the last year and as I was going back and reading over the last 12

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Thank you for 2013

I was gearing up for a big end-of-the-year post where I would talk about all that has happened this year and thank all the people who came into my life

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The Best of Bedhead 2013 – My Favorite Posts

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As 2013 draws to a close I decided to round up my favorite posts of the year. It was going to be 10 but I’m apparently a HUGE fan of

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Holiday Wishes and Stuff

Hey Bedheads! So, for me as far as the Christmas season goes Christmas Eve is really where it’s at. Tonight’s my biggest night of the holiday season- I just love

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My House is a Sexy Bed, Bath & Beyond- Sex Storage Like a Boss.

On Tuesday I posted to facebook a picture of my newest sex toy storage solution: On both the Bedhead page and my personal wall it created quite a stir- I

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“I want to kiss your mind” or Why I Don’t Want to Go Hiking With You

Since moving to Portland 7 months ago I have made the same observation about online dating several times: So, I don’t hike, camp or “go to shows” According to online

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…And Dildo Makes Three – Introducing Sex Toys To Your Partner

When we were kids the universal sign for “do you want to be my friend?” was toy sharing, right? So, why is it that as adults we don’t tend to

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The Bedhead’s 2013 Favorite Things!

Well, 2013 has been amazing- all sorts of touring and conferences and general assorted Bedhead awesomeness! Along the way I’ve met so many incredible people, seen a bunch of amazing

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The Redhead Bedhead & Lucky Bloke Team Up To Bring You Sexy Safer Sex!

Hey folks! I’m so excited to, along with Charlie Glickman, Lady Cheeky and Skinny Dip, be working with Lucky Bloke, Global Safer Sex Champions to bring you a limited-edition “sexpert-approved”

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About JoEllen

JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken here at The Redhead Bedhead.

JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression.

JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, University of Tennessee, the Guelph Sexuality Conference, Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground Conference

JoEllen’s first book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having was published by Thorntree Press in March 2020. Her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family was published by Thornapple Press in March 2023.

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